Confused with sexuality.?

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Confused with sexuality.?I've been bouncing back and forth between bisexual and lesbian and sometimes, I'm like "Woahhh, she's HOT." Like physical attraction, you know? And there's this really hot girl and I decided to try to talk to her through myspace and while I waited for her reply, I started to get this bad feeling inside of me. It feels HARD, a hard rocky feeling (in my chest/kinda in my tummy). She finally commented back and my pictures too. I was like "Yess" but that feeling is there, hardcore.... It's not nervousness, really. I did feel it a little, but it's just something hard and stiff inside. Is that instinct and gut feeling? Anxiety? What is that feeling?? (Don't think wrong, it's immature.)

Oh and.. I got an answer saying there is a difference between being physically attracted to the same sex as to being in a relationship with them... can I get an explanation?

Does being molested for 3 years (6yrs to 9yrs old) when I was younger have anything to do with it? I am now 17.

xxXBattleofOneXxx
Just be normal and straight for gods sake.

search4t
Your past could have something to do with your feelings, but everything we go through (good or bad) affects our lives. Maybe the feeling you're having is guilt. Were you raised that homosexuality is wrong? If so that would explain a lot. There are a lot of things to consider. The media is more open to show homosexuality, the net.....just be a 100% before you do something you may regret.

julie
everyone thinks "ohh shes hot" or "ohhh hes good looking" i believe its in us to compare ourselves to our own gender and its okay to think a girl is pretty it doenst mean ur lesbian.. and maybe that thing inside of you is telling u that u dont have to force urself to want to be in a relationship with a female because youve been hurt or u are grossed out by male because of what happened to u. realize not all men are the same. it wasnt ur fault that u got molested so u dotn have to punish urself from all men. sometimes we mistake the feelings of loving our friends that are girls as something more because we enjoy taht sense of security of a freindship that we havent ever had. if u seriously know taht this feeling wasnt nervousness then im positive its ur inner self telling u that being with a female as more than a friend isnt something you should do. and yea it takes time to heal after being traumatized... but realize not every man is like the man who molested u.

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