Alan Watts - Is Life Serious? (Part 1)
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Alan Watts - Is Life Serious? (Part 1)
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Minecraft LOST - Episode 3 w/ MissSwift and ChimneySwift (HD)
Minecraft LOST - Episode 3 w/ MissSwift and ChimneySwift (HD)
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This is gonna be long, but please help me with my mother, I don't know what to do anymore?
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This is gonna be long, but please help me with my mother, I don't know what to do anymore?I'm 15... and 15 year old girls fight with their moms, I know.
I'm also an only child.
But my mom's mom was an alcoholic and her step father was abusive to both her, her sisters, and her mother. She didn't have an easy childhood and of course that would **** anyone up. But she thinks she's perfectly fine and normal and has no problems.
I've realized the way my mother treats me is kind of off. It may be subconscious or intentional.. or a little of both, I don't know. But ever since I was little she would provoke me to where I would get mad and yell and she would punish me for it. This isn't me thinking it... I brought it up with some of my family and they all said they've noticed that for a very long time. She thinks the world is centered around her and has unreasonable expectations of the way she should be treated. It's always been this way.
One of her sisters sees a shrink twice a week, which is what she should be doing due to her crappy childhood. But my mom only sees one... maybe once a month or less.
One of my mom's issues is that to make her seem more normal she'll point out the problems of other people and almost deem them insane.. other people believe her because she makes sure that she is seen as "normal", which makes everything she says and does credible while the other people are not taken seriously. She's done this to the sister I mentioned and other people in my family, also friends and stuff. Everyone has problems, in different shapes and forms.. but she refuses to admit hers... and on the rare occasions that she does, she doesn't attempt to do anything about them. Her problems are harder to put your finger on, where as her sister, the one that I mentioned (she has another), has issues with money spending, which is easier to point out and say "look, she has a problem". But the problem with that is, my aunt, that sister, is someone who sees my mom's problems very clearly and has been helping me a lot with this. She is sane, despite the very clear problems she has, but my mom has pointed out all her flaws so much that what she says is not taken seriously. So she can't be as helpful as she could be to me because people look at her and say "well she has problems..".
My dad isn't someone I can go to because he has depression and anxiety and has always been scared of my mom. My mom wears the pants in this household. And whenever my mom and I start fighting, he takes her side.. because.. I'm obviously at fault because I'm the teenager.
Another thing is, I've been out of school since last April because I got mono. I'm over the mono but now I have something called Epstein Barr virus which you can come down with after getting mono. The good thing is, teenagers always recover, it's not deadly, I'm getting better, I have a physical therapist and a doctor at children's hospital. The disease is not the problem, but the point is that my mother and I are in quite close proximity's. But as much as she tells herself and everyone around her that she understands what I'm going though, she does not.
Lately my mom hasn't been doing ANYTHING. She's stressed because she's writing a book.. but that's really no reason to be the way she's being now. Maybe, starting... 2 or 3 weeks ago.. she just won't do anything for anyone. She hasn't made me dinner in the past 2 weeks and hasn't made me breakfast in like.. 6 months. I know I know, that's normal, a lot of kids have to get their own food, it's about responsibility.. It's not a huge issue in it's self.. but they way she's doing it.. or more.. not doing it.. Also, she won't do me any favors. Last night we were sitting on a bench and she had her purse on the ground next to her and I asked her to grab my gloves for me and she said no and that I can get them... the thing is, the purse was practically on her lap and she couldn't do the simple movement of getting my gloves out.. so I had to get up and walk around her, to her purse, and get my gloves. And she wasn't even busy, she was just looking at a list of events. This in its self doesn't seem so bad.. but take that.. and apply it to.. EVERYTHING. She doesn't do **** anymore. All my friends notice it took and think she's totally lazy.
She takes out her anger and stress on me with the provoking thing so I can look bad and she can punish me. She'll do this in front of her friends sometimes to show her authority but it won't look like anything to them because they're not on the inside of this.
I'm running out of space but I just don't know what to do. At this moment, I'm in trouble, due to her provoking. They took my phone, which is my lifeline. And I'd like to add in that I am a very trustworthy child, I don't drink or do drugs and I'm very open and honest
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This is gonna be long, but please help me with my mother, I don't know what to do anymore?I'm 15... and 15 year old girls fight with their moms, I know.
I'm also an only child.
But my mom's mom was an alcoholic and her step father was abusive to both her, her sisters, and her mother. She didn't have an easy childhood and of course that would **** anyone up. But she thinks she's perfectly fine and normal and has no problems.
I've realized the way my mother treats me is kind of off. It may be subconscious or intentional.. or a little of both, I don't know. But ever since I was little she would provoke me to where I would get mad and yell and she would punish me for it. This isn't me thinking it... I brought it up with some of my family and they all said they've noticed that for a very long time. She thinks the world is centered around her and has unreasonable expectations of the way she should be treated. It's always been this way.
One of her sisters sees a shrink twice a week, which is what she should be doing due to her crappy childhood. But my mom only sees one... maybe once a month or less.
One of my mom's issues is that to make her seem more normal she'll point out the problems of other people and almost deem them insane.. other people believe her because she makes sure that she is seen as "normal", which makes everything she says and does credible while the other people are not taken seriously. She's done this to the sister I mentioned and other people in my family, also friends and stuff. Everyone has problems, in different shapes and forms.. but she refuses to admit hers... and on the rare occasions that she does, she doesn't attempt to do anything about them. Her problems are harder to put your finger on, where as her sister, the one that I mentioned (she has another), has issues with money spending, which is easier to point out and say "look, she has a problem". But the problem with that is, my aunt, that sister, is someone who sees my mom's problems very clearly and has been helping me a lot with this. She is sane, despite the very clear problems she has, but my mom has pointed out all her flaws so much that what she says is not taken seriously. So she can't be as helpful as she could be to me because people look at her and say "well she has problems..".
My dad isn't someone I can go to because he has depression and anxiety and has always been scared of my mom. My mom wears the pants in this household. And whenever my mom and I start fighting, he takes her side.. because.. I'm obviously at fault because I'm the teenager.
Another thing is, I've been out of school since last April because I got mono. I'm over the mono but now I have something called Epstein Barr virus which you can come down with after getting mono. The good thing is, teenagers always recover, it's not deadly, I'm getting better, I have a physical therapist and a doctor at children's hospital. The disease is not the problem, but the point is that my mother and I are in quite close proximity's. But as much as she tells herself and everyone around her that she understands what I'm going though, she does not.
Lately my mom hasn't been doing ANYTHING. She's stressed because she's writing a book.. but that's really no reason to be the way she's being now. Maybe, starting... 2 or 3 weeks ago.. she just won't do anything for anyone. She hasn't made me dinner in the past 2 weeks and hasn't made me breakfast in like.. 6 months. I know I know, that's normal, a lot of kids have to get their own food, it's about responsibility.. It's not a huge issue in it's self.. but they way she's doing it.. or more.. not doing it.. Also, she won't do me any favors. Last night we were sitting on a bench and she had her purse on the ground next to her and I asked her to grab my gloves for me and she said no and that I can get them... the thing is, the purse was practically on her lap and she couldn't do the simple movement of getting my gloves out.. so I had to get up and walk around her, to her purse, and get my gloves. And she wasn't even busy, she was just looking at a list of events. This in its self doesn't seem so bad.. but take that.. and apply it to.. EVERYTHING. She doesn't do **** anymore. All my friends notice it took and think she's totally lazy.
She takes out her anger and stress on me with the provoking thing so I can look bad and she can punish me. She'll do this in front of her friends sometimes to show her authority but it won't look like anything to them because they're not on the inside of this.
I'm running out of space but I just don't know what to do. At this moment, I'm in trouble, due to her provoking. They took my phone, which is my lifeline. And I'd like to add in that I am a very trustworthy child, I don't drink or do drugs and I'm very open and honest
Rosepetal
wow i was in this exact position when i was 15 my mom was abusive like that too,she was exactly like your mom and im a single child too and my mom was a single parents so it was just one small house of crazyness and stress and not wanting to see her ever, she had an abusive childhood too and saw things in life that no child should see,like a murder and things like that. def messed her up and she put all those things on me,all her stress and everything. it was a rough childhood! this is what you do,MOVE OUT as soon as you turn 18 go to a university thats far away and live in residence or in an apartment close to the school and do school and do it to the top to be financial free and happy. in university you will make bestfriends for life,meet your husband etc.. it will be amazing.im going this summer and im getting an apartment close to the school using OSAP which is money the gov lends u to go to school. So im soo happy im getting out of here,once im done this program im taking im going to moveout of the province and continue school. I want DISTANCE :) and happiness. You have every right to a beautiful life,you CAN and WILL overcome your obsticles. at one point my mom would get physical and i got child services involved,so it shows on her record she also once punched out a supervisor at work and had to take anger management. She actually has issues,but i will be free of all this soon :) If you want to talk e-mail me :) I have been through this exact thing,its sooo tough. expecially when its not physical abuse,cuz its harder to prove. But emotional abuse is JUST as damaging if not even MORE at times.
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