Confused with sexuality.?I've been bouncing back and forth between bisexual and lesbian and sometimes, I'm like "Woahhh, she's HOT." Like physical attraction, you know? And there's this really hot girl and I decided to try to talk to her through myspace and while I waited for her reply, I started to get this bad feeling inside of me. It feels HARD, a hard rocky feeling (in my chest/kinda in my tummy). She finally commented back and my pictures too. I was like "Yess" but that feeling is there, hardcore.... It's not nervousness, really. I did feel it a little, but it's just something hard and stiff inside. Is that instinct and gut feeling? Anxiety? What is that feeling?? (Don't think wrong, it's immature.)
Oh and.. I got an answer saying there is a difference between being physically attracted to the same sex as to being in a relationship with them... can I get an explanation?
Does being molested for 3 years (6yrs to 9yrs old) when I was younger have anything to do with it? I am now 17.
macmac
Being molested could definetly have something to do with your problem. I suggest you go talk to a counselor or psyciatrist because that sort of thing can leave lots of underlying issues with a person and the relationships they face. You'll feel a lot better and more clear not only about this but about a lot of things.
Julienne
No I don't think your being molested has anything to do with it. If that were the case, most people would be with same sex partners. Many homosexuals did not suffer abuse and many hetero's did.
I think sexuality is a liquid concept and can change with the ebbs and flows of your needs at that time. Being bisexual is very common and not as strange as people may assume.
Perhaps the knot in your stomach is anxiety as you feel it is wrong for you to feel this way?
Being in a relationship with any sex is challenging, but to large extent more so for same sex people as there is societal pressure and expectations placed on a person.
J. Shree Radha
Yes being molested has a lot to do with it, because then one gets the impression that sex has something to do with love, and it doesn't. One can love the same sex and even feel they are very attractive. But to want to sex with them is of the norm. IT is due to being on the bodily platform. On has to realize that we are not these bodies: IE; race, color, nationality, religion, gender, job, status, mind, intellect, etc. We are all eternal spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul, also known as Krishna, Allah, Jehovah, Vishnu, Rama, etc. That this body is just a vehicle of our eternal soul. When one thinks they are this body they only want to exploit others and lust after their flesh. It has nothing to do with love or our real self. So you will never be satisfied with one gender or another until you realize the soul within. Most transsexuals, bisexuals or even very lusty heterosexuals,that I know are so unhappy and frustrated and in so many miserable dramas. They never are never satisfied or peaceful. It is a bodily mental disease. It can be cured with Bhakti Yoga ( Self Realization ) for info read The Science of Self Realization. It will really help ones understanding of body and spirit and how to be completely happy.
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