Am I losing my mind or is this normal?Ive had the perfect relationship with my girlfriend for over a month now. We never fight or anything, we are perfect.
I heard something a while back that stuck with me a while now.
"Love- a bright exciting flame that eventually dims into a warm comfortable glow."
Is this true? We have been visiting each other once or twice a week. We text each other 24/7 (literally, every waking moment we are texting), and call each other every night.
It's almost like im getting used to her now. Like I love her, I don't know how to describe it though like we say we love each other like every 5 minuets, but its getting old lol like i get tired of texting and saying i love you 24/7.
But when I feel like that i start to feel guilty. like i Truly love her but i just don't feel like talking sometimes or anything and then i feel guilty. ive been really having anxiety over this. its like a compound problem now anxiety is effecting me. she is the perfect girl for me. I love seeing and her and talking to her, but sometimes i want some breathing room but then that makes me feel guilty and ignoring her! then anxiety kicks in with all these bad thoughts like "what if" you would know if you have had anxiety
like "what if" im losing interest in her" or something stupid like that when I know im not.
i love her i do. but anxiety gets the best of me.
any insight/help/thoughts?
Noot
Don't feel quilty if you feel you need some breathing space man. You definitly don't ignore eachother that way. In fact, if you just keep seeing eachother 24/7..That way you dont miss anything.. But giving eachother some space for some hours, and not see/talk eachother for sometime will just make the love grow stronger to see and talk to each other again.
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