AM I losing my mind? Or is this normal?

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AM I losing my mind? Or is this normal?Ive had the perfect relationship with my girlfriend for over a month now. We never fight or anything, we are perfect.
I heard something a while back that stuck with me a while now.

"Love- a bright exciting flame that eventually dims into a warm comfortable glow."

Is this true? We have been visiting each other once or twice a week. We text each other 24/7 (literally, every waking moment we are texting), and call each other every night.

It's almost like im getting used to her now. Like I love her, I don't know how to describe it though like we say we love each other like every 5 minuets, but its getting old lol like i get tired of texting and saying i love you 24/7.

But when I feel like that i start to feel guilty. like i Truly love her but i just don't feel like talking sometimes or anything and then i feel guilty. ive been really having anxiety over this. its like a compound problem now anxiety is effecting me. she is the perfect girl for me. I love seeing and her and talking to her, but sometimes i want some breathing room but then that makes me feel guilty and ignoring her! then anxiety kicks in with all these bad thoughts like "what if" you would know if you have had anxiety
like "what if" im losing interest in her" or something stupid like that when I know im not.

i love her i do. but anxiety gets the best of me.

any insight/help/thoughts?
is our love just settling down and getting into that nice comfortable glow going at a nice comfortable pace?

This is all very hard because at the same time i Think i have anxiety.

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Thats not normal. In fact you should check into an insane asylum.

Noeladishi
Yes its anxiety thats clouding your mind and I know cos I went through the same thing. Its perfectly normal to want to be on your own and its healthy for you and your girlfriend. Being with your girlfriend all the time just isnt right. you will find your time with your girlfriend even more special when you spend some time on your own or with friends, It important to be happy on your own too, a thing which I found extremely hard for a while but got over it. Dont worry, talk to your girlfriend aswell, and tell her your feelings. Doing that allows your love for each other grow. And its really refreshing to find a guy who loves his girlfriend so much, good on ya mate, Best of luck.

Smoorthy
You dont have to tell her you love her every 5 minutes, if you both really are in love, then that fact is enough and you will not have to remind each other all the time, the fact that you are saying it so often shows that your insecure.
Looks like it hasnt settled down yet, but it soon will. Love takes time, you dont just meet someone and fall in love with them.
I wouldnt worry too much about this right now, there are probably bigger problems that you might want to pay attention to, like job security, or future career plans, school, etc... though I dont know how old you are.

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