Why hasnt he asked to be his girlfriend yet and its been a year? Lengthy but 10 points best answer!<3 thanks?so last year i started talking to this guy from my school last year, and we would always hang out, and he'd invite me to parties and his house. his parents knew me, and he'd always say hi to my parents and was eager to meet them. we'd have english class together and always like hug and talk before and class with both our friends. and everytime we'd argue (because i was a little jealous and possesive over him even though we only talked for so little) he'd call me up or text me and we'd fix it right up. i dont know why, but i fell so hard for this boy from the start. because we had such a strong connection and even he said it. we would stop talking because i'd tell him i dont want him anymore because i always suspected something that was probably never there. we never even did anything sexual besides kiss. it was a true true type of feelings that i had for him, and i think he had for me. anyways, so we were on and off, and we would always hang out, i was his "girl" but he never asked the question and i know he knew we werent official because he was like "you shouldnt get jealous because we dont go out" one time when we were arguing. anyways, we got back in the summer, we chilled, it was awkward because its been a while, than he went away for vacation, than he finally texted me and i was like why'd you never text me this whole summer? he's like i was away, i barely had my cellphone, but there was never a day i didnt think about you, we went back together. and i slept over, and we were finally about to have sex, but i have a really weird condition where my hymen is unusually thick so losing my virginity is hard for me, plus i felt anxiety because i care so much about him and how id actually look. but i will get surgery on this soon. anyways, he thought i didnt want him because i kept looking all over the room, anywhere but him and avoid kissing more and getting into it, so he took it another way. i will never admit im a virgin with a rare type of problem to anyone. its so embarrasing to me. so i decided to keep it to myself and let him think that. we didnt talk for another week. than i saw him at a party, and i was talking to one of his friends, and he approaches me and points at me, than him and gives us a sarcastic "thumbs up" like he was jealous. so i go to him and go "its not what you think, can we talk?" so we go to the living room to talk, and im like "do you even miss me?" and he says he does. and we start talking about everything. and than we try to have sex again :/ no goooo. so whatever, hes mad at him because we were naked and we didnt do anything, sort of making it seem like i teased him. we dont talk again. i text him "sorry please dont be mad" and he doesnt answer. and than a few days later i post a status "heartbroken, fuck love and i put so much time and effort for a year and i didnt get shit in return" he comments on it, saying "wow remember when you pissed me off?" and he even said i smelled like fish? im like WOW your immature! -_- and he goes "so whats going on now" im like "forget it..." and we argue and argue hes saying how i dont put effort and how hes trying and im not, an hour later im like "just admit you dont care about us or me and i will finally let you go and never bother you again" and he goes "i dont care" and im like "ok thanks i will move on" i was so heartbroken, and i was so mad that i decided to date someone else
, a month later he's at a party and he told my friend to call me on speaker and tell me to come to the party he's at. and i'm like "yeah sure can i bring my boyfriend?" and when they hung up the phone, he just froze and was like what did she say? he was real upset, he started talking about how he really liked me and still does and that he didnt know i had a boyfriend and that hes mad and even talked to my ex best friend about everything.
she told him that i thought he was playing games with me and he goes no i would never. and that he would of dropped everyone else for me. so he texts me that night saying.. "is it true you have a boyfriend" im like "yeah, why" he goes because "i heard you did and i wanted to make sure" im like "why do you care" and he goes "because i still care about you" and im like "well you told me to move on" and he goes "i dont know why i said that i never should have said that" im like "well its time for me to find someone who cares" and i left it at that. a week later, i broke up with my boyfriend because i feel like i didnt have true feelings for him, and also hes in a gang! hahaha oh boy. too much drama. i didnt want to risk my life. especially that the rival gang was threating me on formspring. but thats another story. so of course he asked me to hang out, we hang out everythings fine,and the next day, we hang out at his house, we mess around,
i tell him i have my period so we dont have sex, and than he told me he'd text me the next day, he doesnt so i text him saying "hey we still hanging or not?" and he goes "not tonight im going out of town"and i still havent heard from him, im seeing him tomorow 2nd period in school. but i want your opinion on this whole thing
JOYSTIKERA
I took too much time reading this!!! XD...
well...
I think that you have feelings for him and he too, its just that both of you had big problems :S but well...if he loves you he will understand, if you feel uncomfortable telling him why you don't have sex...well you are ok telling him that yo are in your period but, one day he will notice what really happened, and he will go like "why didn't you tell me??"...so you love him...he loves you.. OR
you are only in love of the memories you spent together, think about it, I know I don't know you but, I don't want you to get more hurt anymore D:
snoopy
sounds like you too really want to be together but your letting not talking get in the way. when you were looking all over the room, did you tell him your nervous? it has to stop. its a circle that is going to continue. sometimes you have to expose your feelings and take it from there. tell him how you really feel about him. if you don't want to tell him about the surgery that's ok. however, tell him how you feel. if the biggest thing your afraid of is he doesn't feel the same way, its really not as big deal as you think. you've invested a year and hes still hanging around without a hookup. something must be there. tell him and stop the situation. don't use facebook or a cell phone, tell him to his face so you can really see how he feels. look into his eyes and you will know one way or another.
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