What is the best way to deal with a child who is constantly complaining and whining?

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What is the best way to deal with a child who is constantly complaining and whining?I am incredibly frustrated with my six year old son. He complains constantly. When he asks what we are having for breakfast or dinner, the response is always, "None of that I like." When it's time to get dressed, he complains that it's too hard. He has quite a bit of anxiety and is always complaining of physical ailments (stomachache, foot pain,etc.). This behavior is driving me batty and today I feel like a failure as a parent. Frankly, I can't stand to be around him sometimes. My other daughter does not behave this way. I don't know if I have done something wrong or if this is his natural temperament, but I really need some wisdom here. Note that his complaints never change the result: we are still having what we are having for dinner; he still has to get dressed; he still has to go to school, etc.. But why is he so negative all the time? And how can I encourage him to be more positive?

Rutul
One son and other daughters? maybe you raised your daughter differently than your son. since this is your son maybe your husband spoiled him since hes a boy. giving his complains too much attention. give order dont listen to his complains. set the limits. good luck

mypassions4life
My son is like that too and he is 7. I have found a way to cut down on the complaining. I tell him to stop complaining and to try to think of something positive to say. When he does I usually have some positive to say in response to what he said. I have just started, but he is starting to improve already. I think that if I stay on him he will get better.

mel
Children will try to get your undivided attention at whatever the cost. When he does NOT complain be certain the brag and carry on about the fact he did not complain. Try ignoring his complaints. Be sure to brag on your daughter for not complaining so he will see that is where he can get some attention. Good luck.

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