Confused with sexuality.?I've been bouncing back and forth between bisexual and lesbian and sometimes, I'm like "Woahhh, she's HOT." Like physical attraction, you know? And there's this really hot girl and I decided to try to talk to her through myspace and while I waited for her reply, I started to get this bad feeling inside of me. It feels HARD, a hard rocky feeling (in my chest/kinda in my tummy). She finally commented back and my pictures too. I was like "Yess" but that feeling is there, hardcore.... It's not nervousness, really. I did feel it a little, but it's just something hard and stiff inside. Is that instinct and gut feeling? Anxiety? What is that feeling?? (Don't think wrong, it's immature.) I think boys are gross.
Oh and.. I got an answer saying there is a difference between being physically attracted to the same sex as to being in a relationship with them... can I get an explanation?
Does being molested for 3 years (6yrs to 9yrs old) when I was younger have anything to do with it? I am 17 now.
Just a few weeks ago, I was looking forward to dating this guy. Then after a while, it was just games with him. So I gave up. And now, he called me "babe" again, and I just didnt care. (?)
wylde95
I would say it's anxiety
Yes being molested, probably has a lot to do with it. That could make you anxious about any relationship, with man, woman, sexual, or not.
You should get counseling, even if you think you are over it.
And even if you had counseling before, you may need just to talk to someone again, especially if it's been a long time since you talked to a counselor.
Tracy M
Being molested probably has a lot to do with your feelings right now. You likely don't really trust men so think going out with girls will be better...you are realizing it isn't necessarily what you want either. Go for counselling to get through the baggage you are carrying around inside because of the molestation and you will then be able to have a healthy relationship with someone (male or female...whichever you feel is right for you).
GeekDGirl
Slow down. Take care of yourself and figure out what you want. It might be helpful for you to process your experience when you were younger with a therapist. You can get help sifting through everything that way. It might just assist you in putting your thoughts in order and understanding yourself more.
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