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Confused with sexuality.?I've been bouncing back and forth between bisexual and lesbian and sometimes, I'm like "Woahhh, she's HOT." Like physical attraction, you know? And there's this really hot girl and I decided to try to talk to her through myspace and while I waited for her reply, I started to get this bad feeling inside of me. It feels HARD, a hard rocky feeling (in my chest/kinda in my tummy). She finally commented back and my pictures too. I was like "Yess" but that feeling is there, hardcore.... It's not nervousness, really. I did feel it a little, but it's just something hard and stiff inside. Is that instinct and gut feeling? Anxiety? What is that feeling?? (Don't think wrong, it's immature.) I think boys are gross.
Oh and.. I got an answer saying there is a difference between being physically attracted to the same sex as to being in a relationship with them... can I get an explanation?
Does being molested for 3 years (6yrs to 9yrs old) when I was younger have anything to do with it? I am now 17.
Just a few weeks ago, I was looking forward to dating this guy. Then after a while, it was just games with him. So I gave up. And now, he called me "babe" again, and I just didnt care. (?)
enemy_of_average
you don't need to put a lable on your sexuality. its ok to "bounce" around between lables - no one is an absolute anything.
it definitely sounds like you're attracted to girls, so don't doubt that - try and find some likeminded and open minded people to hang around with and you'll eventually find a partner.
i had an ex who was also sexually abused as a child who blames her lesbianism on her negative heterosexual experiences as a kid - it probably is related in some way or another, but again - you don't have to limit yourself by saying, "oh i'm only a lesbian because".
if you like a woman, ask her out. if you like a guy, ask him out. you don't have to put yourself into a box.
good luck
chromedome
Just be who you are. There is no need to put a label on it. If you are interested in a woman, talk to her. If interested in a man, talk to him. You might be surprised what happens!
And, no, I don't think that being molested should affect it. But if you are concerned about that, go talk to a counselor. Your school counselor can refer you to someone if she can't help you.
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