Getting bullied because of my anxiety disorder? School wont do anything?I have generalized anxiety disorder, which means I have extremely high, irrational anxieties and phobias, and that I'm never anxiety free.
(I have this because of childhood trauma btw)
Anyway at my school, people know there are certain things they can do to make me have a panic attack or a breakdown. So they deliberately do it, knowing full well what theyre doing.
They crowd round me so it feels like I cant get out and keep coming closer and closer, which makes me panic so so much :( then I'll hit them so I can get out, and I'LL get in trouble for fighting?!?!? WTF?! Surely they should get in trouble for provoking someones condition?!
And they do things like that, and they say stuff like "your ugly no one likes you you should commit suicide your pathetic your worthless you should die it'd make us all happier". This really hurts me, and I get so so worried that all their problems ARE my fault somehow :(
I hate going to school and I'm really nervous about it, it's awful. My parents are getting stressed because of it and theyre always on edge, and they shout at me saying "If I have a heart attack cos of stress its your fault" which doesnt help :\
So idk who to talk to anymore, the school does sh*t all, my counsellor doesn't help me, my parents are too stressed to deal with it, and I'm to frightened to.
So what do I do?
Im 15
Thanks
Amaira <3
yeah I get told I'm after attention too, people think I do it intentionally >:-/ It's so annoying :( Good luck with it, hope you feel better soon :)
Dev
Rebel. Keep skipping school until they have no choice but to take action.
Maybe you have some heightened sense like in that movie Wanted.
But back on topic...They're problems aren't your fault at all. It's actually they're problems. Just ignore your parents and keep your head up high. You can always turn to your friends for help and security as well. They can even walk around with you to make sure your safe :)
ranga123
they should get in trouble, take medication if you don't already and attempt martial arts or something that will make you feel safe if your comfortable doing something like that
Laura
Talk to your home/tutor/care group teacher.
This is totally unacceptable, you should feel safe at school. If your school counselor and home group teacher cannot help you then schedule an appointment with the principal.
Ask your parents to come along to the meeting, and have ready specific examples of what other students have done to you.
Do not provoke other students to get specific examples, this only makes you look bad.(I doubt you would, but I've been a game mod before and so many people who are being bullied online provoke people or go along with it)
Explain the situation to your principal, whilst your parents are there. Explain it simply, but talk about 2 or 3 specific examples.
The principal will probably speak to individual students involved, be prepared to give names.
If the students involved do not cease their behaviour, you can go to the police.
If all else fails, consider changing schools, and at your new school only tell your close friends about your disorder.
Remember that teachers, parents and the police are all their for you when you need them. Although sometimes they don't listen at first - which is why you need to be blunt, rational and prepared.
I hope things get better for you.
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